The 4 Types of Negative People To Avoid At All Cost

As we progress through this journey called life we will allow a number of different people to come into our lives, whether it be as friends, business partners, lovers, or whatever else.  And there will also be those that enter our lives and immediately start causing trouble.   You don’t have time to keep these types of people around, as they’ll only hold you back in life.  You need people in your life who are going to help you grow, help you love, help you flourish.  
Here are four types of negative people that you don’t need in your life:
The User
A person with this type of personality is highly egotistical.  They’re masters of manipulation and deception and have zero remorse for those that they afflict.  They’re quick to feed on people who are kind and sensitive, as they’re the easiest to use and abuse.  They’ll often leave your life in ruins, as if they were some sort of natural catastrophe.
To deal with this type of person, do not engage with their drama-creating antics, be assertive and don’t be afraid to say ‘no’ with confidence.
The Gossiper
If you’ve ever had to deal with a person who gossips and spreads rumors, then you’ve met a person with extremely low self-esteem and plenty of insecurities.  They like to twist context, omit certain details, and embellish the truth for a variety of reasons, including popularity, revenge, control, power and just plain boredom.
Do your best to avoid getting caught up in their stories, and don’t be afraid to call them out when they start gossiping.
The Blamer
The Blamer is a person who feels largely victimized every time something undesirable happens.  They hate taking responsibility for anything and are quick to pass off the blame to someone else, even if it means going to extreme measures.  This shows their innate lack of self-control and self-esteem.
When dealing with this type of person be sure to control the conversation.  Question everything and be sure that they know they’re going to be held accountable.
The Complainer
The Complainer is the person you always see moping about feeling sorry for themselves.  And they like to divert attention to themselves by spreading negativity.  These people can be hard to deal with because of their strange demeanor.
The best thing to do is to be supportive while abstaining from any engagement of the issue or story that they’re pushing.  Completely detach yourself from the situation while acknowledging their plight.