25 Science-Backed Ways to Feel Happier
If you’re happy and you know it, clap your hands!
Even as children, we’re taught to recognize and celebrate feelings of
happiness—and it’s no wonder. Not only is happiness one of the most
positive emotions we can experience, but being happy is also the key to a
fulfilled, healthy life. Plus, cheeriness is linked to living longer, how hard we work, physical function as we age, and an improved immune system, among other health benefits.
While it’s hard to define (especially since it varies from person to person), some experts describe happiness as “a combination of life satisfaction and having more positive emotions than negative emotions,” while others view it as consisting of three parts: feeling good, living a “good life,” and feeling part of a larger purpose. There’s also a distinct difference between short- and long-term happiness: The former is a fleeting feeling, while the latter applies to how we describe our own lives.
While some factors that affect happiness might be outside of our control (such as genetics or certain life circumstances), there are always actions we can take to amp up our own good feelings. To smile wider, be more satisfied with life, and feel altogether better—both in the present and the future—try introducing any (or all!) of these practices into your life.
While it’s hard to define (especially since it varies from person to person), some experts describe happiness as “a combination of life satisfaction and having more positive emotions than negative emotions,” while others view it as consisting of three parts: feeling good, living a “good life,” and feeling part of a larger purpose. There’s also a distinct difference between short- and long-term happiness: The former is a fleeting feeling, while the latter applies to how we describe our own lives.
While some factors that affect happiness might be outside of our control (such as genetics or certain life circumstances), there are always actions we can take to amp up our own good feelings. To smile wider, be more satisfied with life, and feel altogether better—both in the present and the future—try introducing any (or all!) of these practices into your life.
1. Spend time outside.
Enjoying time al fresco is a great way to put some pep back in your step. Living near green spaces is associated with better mental health, and even just looking
at images of nature scenes can stimulate the parts of your brain
associated with happiness, positivity, and emotional stability. Plus,
spending time in the great outdoors exposes us to sunlight, which can
help our bodies produce vitamin D. Since low levels of the nutrient have been linked to depression,
soaking up a little bit of sun (we’re talking just 15 minutes per day)
may lift your spirits both in the present and over the long term. Just
make sure to slather on some sunscreen!
2. Sweat it out.
We’re obviously big fans of exercise in general, but making
time for a regular fitness session does more than just sculpt a strong
physique. While getting your sweat on may not cause happiness, it can certainly contribute to it. Physical activity helps our bodies produce disease-fighting proteins—called antibodies—and our brains release endorphins. While antibodies boost happiness by keeping illness at bay, endorphins
are feel-good chemicals that improve your mood while promoting feelings
of euphoria. To top it all off, research suggests that regular activity
may lead to lasting happiness. So it’s safe to say your gym membership pays off—physically and mentally—in the long run.
3. Sleep more.
Catnaps, power naps, a full night’s sleep… no matter the
method, a quality snooze session is vital for overall well-being and
happiness. In fact, research
shows that not sleeping enough (four hours per night) may lead to lower
levels of optimism. And other studies show skimping on sleep can damage
our on-the-job performance and academic performance. Your best bet: Load up on your vitamin Zzz’s for a healthier, happier life.
4. Meditate.
Though meditating can sometimes be daunting (quieting your mental chit-chat is tough work!), there are tons of health benefits associated with the practice. Research
shows that eight weeks of daily meditation can lead to greater
happiness. Looking to get started? Try incorporating any of these 10 unexpected meditation strategies into your day.
5. Turn up the tunes.
Just try to frown while listening to upbeat songs (like any of the ones on our Ultimate Happy Playlist)—we dare you! Jamming out can help reduce stress—which leads to greater happiness in general. Plus, research
shows listening to music with the goal and desire to become happier may
actually lead to greater happiness than simply listening for the sake
of listening. So the next time you pump up the volume, keep that
positive intention in mind—you may just find yourself smiling a little
wider.
6. Get a new hobby.
Not only is it mentally stimulating (not to mention fun),
but challenging yourself to learn a new skill can lead to greater
happiness, experts say.
That’s thanks to the feelings of accomplishment and self-confidence
that often come along with gaining new expertise. Consider this your cue
to sign up for those French lessons you’ve always wanted to take, or
pick up the ukulele—choose something that genuinely interests you, and
run with it!
7. Write it down.
Negative thoughts are nasty, powerful, and all too easy to
dwell upon—and it goes without saying that doing so can make us feel
pretty bummed. One way to relieve your mind: Jot it all down. Try
writing down your negative thoughts on a piece of paper, and then
throwing the piece of paper away. Research suggests that physically tossing your worries can lessen their hold over you. On the flipside, if you document positive experiences
that you feel grateful for, you’re likely to feel happier and more
satisfied with life. And if you really want to boost your mood, phone a
friend and share some of your happy journal entries—doing so may triple your positive feelings.
8. Get busy.
It’s no secret that stress can get you down. Luckily
there’s a pretty sweet solution: some between-the-sheets action—and that
totally includes solo sessions. Those mind-blowing romps can not only boost your mood, but also slash stress and beat anxiety. Can’t argue with that, right? And in case you need an excuse to get it on more often, consider this: Research suggests that the more sex people have, the happier they tend to be. One study
even suggests that having sex once a week may make you feel as stoked
as scoring an additional $50,000 in income. Getting lucky even more
frequently—four or more times per week—has been linked to making more money—and while extra dough certainly can’t buy happiness, it definitely plays a part in it.
9. Have an attitude of gratitude.
Our parents were onto something when they reminded us to always write our thank-you notes—doing so can make you healthier and happier. What’s more, being grateful may lead to other positive emotions (including a boost in energy and optimism) and well-being. Besides simply thanking people, try keeping a gratitude journal, and write down what you’re thankful for every day. Experts maintain that jotting down even one sentence of gratitude a day can boost feelings of happiness.
10. Spread joy.
Much like yawning and a case of the giggles, happiness really is contagious. One study
found that happiness has a waterfall effect among pals (and their pals…
and their pals’ pals). When one person’s happy, it spreads to his or
her friends and entire social network over the long term. Pretty much
the most awesome way to influence other people, right?
11. Be a friend.
A few wise men once sang, “I get by with a little help from
my friends”—and they couldn’t be more spot-on. Except we don’t justget
by thanks to our friendships—positive friendships help us feel more confident, less stressed, and happier. To make new friends—and keep the ones you have—try these 16 tips.
12. Learn to let go.
Adopting a hakuna matata outlook can boost overall
happiness. Easier said than done, to be sure, but making a point to
detach yourself from mistakes, worries, and regrets may lead to more
lighthearted times. In fact, holding onto resentment and hurt feelings can tie you to the past and also marks a decision to continue suffering. Make the choice to be happy by forgiving people who hurt you and moving away from situations from your past that brought you down.
13. Practice self-care on a daily basis.
Given the manic pace of day-to-day life, it’s easy to forget about taking care of yourself—and
that’s a surefire way to end up unhappy, burnt out, and even ill. Try
treating yourself to regular actions that improve your overall,
long-term health and happiness (this list is a pretty great place to start!).
14. Practice yoga.
Getting your om on is an excellent way to boost your mood and beat anxiety, research shows.
In fact, one study suggests yoga may be more effective at boosting mood
than other methods of exercise. Plus, practicing yoga can also help slash stress and improve immunity—both of which contribute to overall, long-term health and happiness.
15. Load up on nutrients.
When it comes to leading a healthy lifestyle, eating well is clutch—especially since the nutrients you consume improve your mental health as much as your physical well-being. Case in point: Research
finds that happiness and mental well-being are highest among people who
eat a good amount of fruit and vegetables per day (seven portions, in
this case). Check out this long list of mood-boosting nutrients here, and fill up your plate with the good stuff.
16. Feel the flower power.
Apart from brightening up a room, flowers can also brighten up your mood. A floral fixture may reduce feelings of pain and anxiety while boosting positive emotions. One study
also shows that looking at flowers first thing in the morning leads to
increased happiness and energy and decreased anxiety. Not only that, but
being surrounded by blooms can also positively affect your 9-to-5—it’s
been shown to boost creativity and make workspaces feel more pleasant.
17. Go easy on yourself.
Too often, we’re our own worst enemies. While it’s good to
be aware of mistakes you’ve made and improvements you can make, beating
yourself up on the regular is a surefire way to wind up singing the
blues. In fact, experts believe
that self-criticism can just make us more miserable. So instead of
dwelling on your every failing, focus on how and why you value yourself.
This shift will help make you stronger, more productive, less stressed,
and, yes, happier.
18. Grab a yellow shirt.
The next time you’re feeling down, try harnessing the power of a yellow hue. Research
shows happy people tend to associate their mood with the cheerful
color, and folks also tend to think of yellow as the color of optimism
(possibly because we associate it with the sun). To incorporate the
power of yellow into your life, try adding a bit of yellow to your outfit or painting your walls the cheerful hue.
19. Minimize stress.
When it’s a chronic problem,
the big bad stress monster is responsible for tons of health
problems—including anxiety, sleep issues, depression, and more—and these
can all put a damper on your mood. To keep your spirits soaring, try
incorporating any of these 23 stress-busting strategies into your life.
20. See the glass as half-full.
If there’s one trait that goes hand-in-hand with happiness, it’s optimism. People who think positively
are less likely to feel depressed, more productive at work, and
generally healthier than their doom-and-gloom counterparts. That said,
it’s important to be both optimistic and realistic instead of just blindly positive. (In fact, forcing ourselves to feel over-the-top positive may do more harm than good, especially for those of us more prone to cynical thinking.) People with a healthy combination of optimism and realism don’t
let unhappy thoughts bring them down, but they use their realistic
outlook to make smart decisions and actions. Talk about the best of both
worlds.
21. Have meaningful conversations.
Shooting the breeze may be fun and completely effortless,
but small talk won’t lead you to a happier life. In one study, people
who engaged in the least amount of meaningless chit-chat were also the
happiest. And speaking of conversation skills, being a good listener may also lead to a greater sense of well-being, stronger relationships, and all-around better experiences.
22. Get stuff done.
Fact: Since it prevents us from accomplishing goals, procrastination diminishes happiness. Avoid putting off tasks
and continue working towards your goals in order to give yourself a
mental boost. Though conquering something challenging may stress us out
while we’re doing it, it also makes us happier in the long run (hey, who doesn’t love an accomplishment?). Plus, when we set goals (and meet or surpass our hopes and expectations), it can help us feel more purpose and control and boosts our self-esteem.
23. Complain—the right way.
Whining is generally considered a bad thing—and yeah, it
can get pretty annoying if you’re on the receiving end. Done
effectively, however, it can actually benefit
our mental health. So what exactly makes complaining effective? When
voicing a concern leads to results, which in turn lead to a better mood
and self-esteem andfeeling empowered, it’s effective. In other words,
complaining done right involves identifying a problem and taking
positive action to address it, not just getting stuck in a loop-de-loop
of complaints.
24. Save money…
Building up a nest egg is an important part of a happy life—and a financially sound future. One survey
found that the more people saved, the happier they tended to be.
Putting money aside is also associated with feelings of security,
wellbeing, and control. Save some cash here, there, and everywhere with
these 94 (!) money-saving tips.
25. ...And spend it (wisely)!
While it’s crucial to stash some cash away for a rainy day, one study
suggests that indulging in the occasional shopping trip can actually
reduce sadness by making us feel more in-control. While retail therapy
seems to be a legit thing, science shows that spending money on others is especially beneficial to happiness. And if you really want to boost your mood, experts suggest combining an actual gift with the gift of your time—so both you and your giftee enjoy the purchase and
the time spent together—whether you’re giving an experience, like
cooking classes, or something more material, like new golf clubs.
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