10 Traits of Genuinely Smart People (That Have Nothing to Do With Intelligence)
Not so long ago researchers discovered that smartness does not equal
intelligence. Intelligence is systematically measurable and defined as
an ability to acquire new knowledge and skills and to use them. On the
other hand, smartness is a collection of often
counterintuitive traits that help you reach your goals through sometimes unorthodox means.
Genuinely smart people do not have to be ‘brainiacs’.
Most often than not, they will go through school being average, never
drawing attention to themselves by being stellar performers, athletes,
or spelling bee champions. Their unique skill set will help them out
more in the real world, which is not boxed into a set of academic rules
and expectations. Highly intelligent people have the upper hand in a
well-organized, structured environment, but they will still often be
outperformed by smart individuals who might not be their intellectual
equals.
Why is that?
What do genuinely smart people have that the intelligent ones lack?
For starters, intelligent people are overly confident. They know they
are smart, and will often take ‘mental shortcuts’, believing that they
are doing the math faster that way. The truth is, they are skipping it
all together. This leads to a number of embarrassing mistakes – just
think of the bat and the ball question! – that smart people side step
with ease.
So, are you just ‘paper smart’ or are you genuinely intelligent? Take
a look at this list of characteristics genuinely smart people possess
and find out!
1. Their mind operates in a constant state of flux
They are always uncertain of their wants, desires, ambitions, and
even thoughts. They are also well-aware of that. They let that
uncertainty drive them forward because they believe it breeds
possibility. In other words, they don’t encapsulate themselves in a
certain frame of mind because they know that limits their true
potential.
2. They think before they speak
Their mouth is rarely quicker than their brain. When you ask a smart
person a question they will take their time to answer. They don’t rely
on their wits to guide them to a good answer; they think long and hard
before giving one, especially on important questions.
3. They aim to contribute
Genuinely smart people add to a conversation only if they feel that they can contribute something to it.
You won’t see their Facebook walls full of opinionated status updates.
They speak only when sure that they can bring something meaningful to
the table. And if they don’t have something constructive or insightful
to say, they’ll most likely keep their mouth shut.
4. They think for themselves
You’ll be hard-pressed to convince a smart person into doing anything
they didn’t have time to think about. They refuse to let other people’s
ideas mold their reality, and they don’t hold anyone to be infallible.
They will rarely conform just for the sake of fitting in, and they
dismiss the notion that a majority is always right.
5. They are not afraid to be wrong
Genuinely smart people don’t let their ego run away with them. They
are perfectly capable of admitting mistakes and acknowledging that they
are, possibly, not the smartest person in the room.
6. They offer a different take on things instead of simply correcting others
They are rarely argumentative and nit-picky. Instead of correcting
other contributors, smart people will respectfully offer their opinions
on the matter, and make their case using facts and logic. Their answer
doesn’t have to be a right one, but it will offer a fresh perspective
and deepen the discussion.
7. They are not antagonistic
Genuinely smart people know that, once you lose your cool, all hope
for constructive discussion goes out the window. That is why they avoid
being argumentative and picking fights with others. After all, you’ll
attract more flies with honey than with vinegar. They know it, and they
use it.
8. They trust their gut
We often get off the track thanks to their wild-running impulses.
Smart people don’t allow themselves to get sidetracked and derailed
easily. They ignore impulses and stick with their instincts, often
forgoing short-term benefits for the sake of long-term goals.
9. They are problem solvers
They think long and hard about their problems and how to solve them,
preferring steadfast solutions to temporary fixes. That is why other
people often turn to them when in need. For that reason, they themselves
consider this particular trait both a blessing and a curse.
10. They don’t care about what you think
How many times have you’ve been stopped dead in your tracks just
because you considered what other people will think before doing
something? If your answer is often, then you have some work to do on
your ‘smarts’. Genuinely smart people rarely take into account how
others will feel about the decisions they make. They pursue their
interests without the fear of looking foolish or being judged by others.
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