8 Signs That Can Reveal If A Person Is Genuine Or Fake
Fake people.
No matter how much you try to avoid them, they always seem to find
their way into your life now and then. Perhaps you are dealing with a
bunch of fake people even now. So how to tell a genuine from a fake
person?
Here
are 8 signs that can reveal if a person is fake and at the same time,
the same tests can be used to see how genuine that person is:
- Respect
A
genuine person will respect everyone deserving of respect. You will see
them greeting the cleaning lady and the most powerful person they know
with equal kindness. This is because a genuine person will recognize the
true values a person can possess.
A fake person will respect only those with power.
This is not really an ability that can be called respect, but rather
their weakness and at the same time wish to climb upwards by latching on
those that have already climbed up. Get away from these people.
- Getting along with people
A
genuine person will never try to make people like them. If they get
along, they are getting along because they like the other person. If
they don’t get along, they won’t often try to do so, just to be liked by
everyone.
A
fake person will always try to have people like them, no matter what.
They will always be nice to everyone and will always shower them with
compliments and whatever they want to hear. This is not because they
like them in the genuine sense, but because they want to be liked by
everyone.
- Attention
Genuine
people don’t try to gain attention by any means. They act naturally,
just the way they are, and they can definitely attract attention with
that, but never with the purpose to do that.
Fake people
are attention seekers. They will do everything to be in the center of
attention, if not by everyone, at least by those they deem worthy of
noticing them.
They
do this to show just how ‘good’ they are at doing things, or how
‘superior’ they are compared the rest. This is of course not always the
case.
- Bragging
Genuine
people don’t feel the need to brag. If they are good at something, they
are – simple as that. Whatever they receive as a reward for being good
at something comes as a response to what they have tried hard to
achieve.
Fake
people will brag as much as they can – for things they have managed to
do, and things they haven’t. If they haven’t succeeded much at anything,
they will invent a success they have heard of, compare it to what they
have presented about themselves so far, and they will brag that they
have done it.
- Opinion
Genuine
people will speak out when they have something on their mind. They
aren’t afraid of saying what needs to be said and they will never keep
it inside. They express their opinions openly and they don’t really see a
reason not to. They don’t always have to be right, but it’s their
opinion.
Fake
people will never have the courage to do this, especially if it’s about
a person. They will turn to gossip and spread rumors and dirt about a
person. Especially if that person is more capable and more powerful than
them. Either that, or they will humiliate those that are more allowing –
especially people pleasers.
- Commitments
Genuine
people will always try to live up to their promises and will openly
admit if they have gone astray. They are usually aware of their
capabilities and try to make commitments they think they can live up to.
Fake
people will make commitments more easily than genuine people. The
difference is, they will seldom keep them. They will offer themselves to
do whatever comes as a topic, just to be noticed and thought of as
capable and reliable. However, they don’t live up to this idea.
- Admiration
Genuine
people don’t have a problem admiring others for their abilities. They
will praise others for things they have done, and will admire them for
that.
Fake
people will not admit if someone has done something good. Instead, they
will try to find the little faults and use them to criticize others,
just to make themselves look great. Because they don’t try to do much,
they would rather make others seem less capable.
- Helpfulness
Genuine
people are nice and helpful most of the time. They will try their best
to give a helping hand to whoever needs one. Of course, they are ready
to deny help to those who want to use them, should they notice that this
is the case.
Fake
people will help out only if there is something they can gain out of
it. They work with hidden agendas and they don’t really find ‘selfless
help’ as a concept that should exist.
So,
if a fake person is helping you, you should know that they are getting
something from it, even if you can’t put your finger on it.Put
the people you know through these 8 tests and see how many they will
fail. Now that you think of it, how many fake people do you know?
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