20 Things To Do When You’re 30 That Will Make Life Better At 50....Advice from grandparents..
If life teaches harsh lesson, it’s that you have to face the fact that everything ‘sweet’ now, will cause trouble later on.
The best junk food meal will cause
trouble in your body, no matter how drooling it might seem at first
sight, or how delicious it is.
If we don’t throw some toxic habits while we can, they will sure cause massive trouble later.
If you don’t have grandparents to tell
you couple of life advice’s, below you will find obvious secrets that
will majorly help you later on.
1. Don’t smoke. If you’ve started, stop immediately
“If you could see me now, I’m down on
my poor, crackling knees begging you to at least consider stopping
smoking,” writes Quora user Cyndi Perlman Fink. It’s expensive, smells
gross, and is 100% guaranteed to cause health problems. Want to be
cancer-free at 50? Stop smoking.
2. Stop eating crap
“You can make a lot of money in
20s, 30s, 40s, 50s,…90s to buy the whole world when you are at age 50 or
beyond,” writes Quora user Sireesha Chilakamarri. “But, you cannot buy
your health. Give up on fast food right now at age 30.” (Study Shows That 61% Of Your Calories Are From Highly Processed Food)
3. Maintain (or repair) relationships with parents and siblings
“…Chances are you’ve come across ideas
and changed in ways that mean you don’t see eye to eye with them on many
issues. But then – that’s part of what a family can help with – to
learn to get along with people you don’t agree with on many issues,”
writes Quora user Robert Walker. “I come from a family which is very
argumentative. If you didn’t understand the situation you might at times
think we hate each other. But it isn’t like that at all. Rather, we
free to speak our minds because the family ties are so strong.”
4. Stop going out in the sun without sunblock
“I was stupid. I didn’t listen. Do you
want wrinkles and thin skin from sun damage like I have and do you want
bruises from just lightly touching the side of a box and having your
skin peel off? Go ahead, enjoy lying in the sun without sunblock,”
writes Quora user Cyndi Perlman Fink.
5. Exercise regularly
Build an active lifestyle now, and when you’re 50 you won’t be stuck in a Rascal. “Don’t gain weight. Exercise.
Keep your weight at a normal level that’s good for your body,”
continues Cyndi Perlman Fink. “Weight does all kinds of bad things for
you body. I’ve been fat, I’ve been thin, thin is healthier.”
6. Start saving money. Even if it’s just a tiny bit
“Save money. I know this is a boring,
trite, and unsexy suggestion, but it’s true,” writes Quora user Cliff
Gilley. “In your 30s, the average person has a lot of disposable income,
some of which can almost always easily be set aside for use later in
life. Plus, building the habit of saving early means you’ll continue it
further down the line.”
7. Learn to be content with what you have
“…Happiness is what matters far more
than worldly success,” writes Quora user Robert Walker. “If you are
content with what you have then you may be a bit less likely to end up a
millionaire, but you will have a happier life.
And if you do become a wealthy person – is no reason why not, you’ll be
a more happy, fulfilled and productive wealthy person.”
8. Don’t delay pursuing your life goals
“Want to buy a house? Have kids? Write a
book? Get a second degree or advanced degree? Change your career? Learn
to play a new musical instrument? Learn to cook gourmet meals? Try
scuba diving? Run for public office? Start a business and be
self-employed? Then start today,” writes Quora user Bill Karwin . It’s
easy to put things off. “I’ll get to that someday.” But it’s really
true that time starts accelerating as you enter your 30’s, and it keeps
accelerating. The time that you’ll get around to those dreams should be
now.”
9. Get some sleep
“Use stellar sleep hygiene,” writes
Quora user Nan Waldman. “A dark room or sleep shades will block out
light. No bright screens before bedtime. Go to sleep at the same time
and wake up at the same time.”
10. Take care of your teeth
“…Go to the freaking dentist already,”
writes Quora user Caroline Zelonka. “Get your little cavities fixed as
they come up. Unlike many body health issues, dental problems only get
worse — and things like crowns and implants are uncomfortable,
time-consuming and expensive (like, close to five figures per tooth for
an extraction, implant and crown). If you have a good savings and income
stream, the bills won’t be the painful thing — but there’s no getting
around the pain and the time suck.”
11. Collect memories instead of things
You are the sum of your experiences.
Don’t wake up when you’re 50 and realize that you’ve wasted life
gathering possessions. Memories won’t depreciate and can’t be burned in a
fire. (Inspired by Quora user Richard Careaga).
12. Give something back
“Give to others
so you feel the goodness that service brings,” writes Quora user Nan
Waldman. “However you give, do it with your full heart, soul, and
effort. Expect nothing in return.”
13. Be curious and do one thing that scares you every day
“Get out of the house and have an
honest-to-God adventure right now,” writes Quora user Mary Leek. “Make
it as big as you can possibly manage, take lots of pictures, throw
caution to the wind, take on the risk, grab the brass ring. If possible,
include someone you’re close to – make a BIG memory. It has to be more
than jumping out of an airplane – it needs to be measured in days, not
hours or minutes. You’ll still be smiling about it when you’re old and
creaky, I promise. I am.”
14. Read at least 10 books a year
“Gee I wish I spent more time watching
TV and playing video,” said no 50 year-old ever. Your brain never stops
growing, so exercise it with media that matters. (Inspired by Quora user
Vanitha Muthukumar).
15. Travel. As much as possible, whenever you can
“Traveling will change you like little
else can. It will put you in places that will force you to care for
issues that are bigger than you,” writes Jeff Goins.
“It’s about experiencing true risk and adventure so you don’t have to
live in fear for the rest of your life. And…inspiring others to step out
of that fear, too.
16. Learn to meditate
“The list of benefits is endless,
it only costs you a small amount of time a day, the change in your life
and the people you love will be amazing,” writes Quora user Rens De
Nobel. “And compared to ten years ago, there are long lists of
scientific studies to back it up.”
17. Do you focus on...
Trust me, the day your body starts to
show the signs of wear & tear, you no longer see any fun in partying
or trying to impress people around you,” writes Quora user Satish Kumar
Grandhi. “You need to start your path of self discovery right now to
become stronger by the time you are 50.”
18. Keep a journal
“You WILL forget more of your precious
memories that you’ll remember,” writes Quora user Mark Crawley. “Your
written records will entertain and endear in your future (wish I had).
Your computer should make this archiving all the easier to implement and
retain / recall. Put files on memory sticks with photos. Your kids (or
surviving spouse) may someday love you for it.”
19. Become a homeowner
“Buy a house, it’ll be nearly paid for by the time you’re 50,” writes Quora user Liz Read.
20. Take care of your friends
“Choose people who make you feel like
you already are your best self, who challenge you by their example, and
who you genuinely enjoy,” explains Nan Waldman. “Nurture them. Laugh
with them. Be silly too. Contribute to their survival and enjoyment of
life. Take the time every week to be in touch.”
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