10 Psychological Tricks To Get Someone To Like You

 

We all know that you just can’t force people to fall in love with you, no matter how badly you want it to happen. But is it possible to encourage them to fall in love with you, by doing all you can to increase your chances of the person of your dreams taking notice of you? While some people might think this is immoral, there might just be a few tricks you can learn to accomplish this goal. After all, this is important stuff we’re talking about here! This is romance, and you know what they say, “All is fair in love and war.”

1.) Wear Red

Getting someone to become attracted to you can be as easy as putting on your clothes in the morning. Researchers have discovered that people find red an extremely attractive color, and are more likely to become interested in people who wear that color. Red is also associated with sexual energy and action.

 

2.) Say their name

Repeating someone’s name is not only a good way to make sure you remember it, but also a good way to foster attraction in other people. It makes people feel like they have a personal connection with you. Just hearing someone say your name can give you chills and send shivers up your spine.

3.) Mirroring

Mirroring is an interesting concept in the world of psychology, and it can have some huge effects on the people around us. If you mirror someone you would like to attract, it can make them feel like you are “on the same page,” so to speak. If they check their watch, check yours. If they scratch their leg, scratch yours. You’d be amazed at the effects.

4.) Be empathetic

If you’re trying to attract someone to yourself, you may want to put yourself in their shoes. This has a number of benefits, all of which can help you attract them. First, being empathetic towards someone can help you anticipate their needs. You can then surprise them with “reading their minds” and being there to help them when they need it. Secondly, people are more likely to feel attracted to someone if they feel like that person understands them. Try getting to the point where you can finish their sentences!

5.) Play hard to get

This is a somewhat risky behavior that can produce great results when trying to attract someone. Playing hard to get is a real art, but when someone pulls it off correctly it can really draw people in. You don’t want to push them away too much, or else they might get turned off completely, instead you want to challenge them. Make them feel like they don’t have much of a chance and they will fight to prove you wrong.

6.) Be closer to them

One of the simplest ways you can encourage someone to become attracted to you is to be closer to them. If you’re always nearby, then the person you want to attract will see more of you, which is always a good thing. After seeing you more and more, the chances are raised for you to “grow” on the person you want to attract.

7.) Use Humor

Using humor is always a great way to attract people, and it is one of the reasons that comedians find it almost effortless to find someone to have a relationship with. This is because of something called the “Humor Effect”. The Humor Effect is a psychological phenomenon where things are more easily remembered when presented in a humorous fashion; so if you want someone to remember you, try cracking a joke!
 8.) Bandwagon Effect
The Bandwagon effect is another interesting psychological phenomenon. This is where people find it easier to accept an opinion. Therefore, if you try to spread the opinion that you’re attractive- tell all your friends to help you spread the rumor- then people who you want to attract will start to believe it. Because if everyone says it’s true, then it must be true, right?

9.) Be in a group

The Cheerleader effect is another psychological effect that can benefit people who want to attract the people around them. The effects of this phenomenon are felt when people hang out in groups. According to research, people are considered more attractive when they are viewed within a group, because a person’s attractiveness value is taken as an average of everyone in the group, rather than as an individual.

10.) Be a “Damsel in Distress”

You know that cliche where the pretty girl drops an armful of books, and the handsome stranger helps her pick them up when no one else steps in to help? This is an example of the “Identifiable Victim Effect.” According to research, people are more likely to step in and help someone, and become attracted to them, if the other is in a situation of trouble and no one will help them. You can recreate this situation by being alone and in trouble, but make sure no one comes to help you.