An Open Letter To Those Who Think Their “Life Sucks”

Posted on February 28, 2015 by Vishnu Verma | CATEGORIES: happiness, self improvement

Okay, let’s admit it.
Life sucks! You often utter these words, you might have said it a number of times in a day that, “My Life really sucks.”
I’m amazed by people who are so dissatisfied with their lives it’s as if they’ve never had anything positive ever happen.

They are not at all contented with the things they own, their relationships, the food they are eating, the clothes they are wearing, the house they are living in, jobs they are doing and there are ‘n’ number of things of which they are so ungrateful for.
And I’m sorry to say, you too fall in the same category. You’re not at all happy with your existing life and eventually you accept it in your heart that your life sucks too.
You know why?

Because you don’t stand a chance, you think that you don’t deserve to be happy.
Because you don’t consider this life as a gift and as a result you’ve made it totally worthless.
Because you are always finding reasons to complain about your job, about your relationships and the things which are continually trying to make you a better person every single day.
In short, you’re screwing yourself and it is getting worse day by day.

The more impatient, ungrateful and complaining person you become!
And this “supports” the fact that your life is seriously sucking you!
This all happens because….

You Lack Gratitude!

I’m pretty much astonished with how ungrateful you are!
Rather than admiring, you’ve always overlooked your present life and you’ve always lusted for new desires and wishes.
You are completely disrespecting each and every thing that is given to you.

“Learn to appreciate what you have before time makes you appreciate what you had.”

You are surrounded by the toxic people who reinforce how bad your existing life is going.
This has made you the kind of person who is always looking for the negative things in life.
All these things completely justify that;
“You are not alive!
Yeah, that’s right; you heard me….I’m talking to you….I’m calling you out.
I’m looking at you and telling you that you are not at all alive!
In this world, there are only few people who are really living their lives. The rest of the people, they simply exist!

And you are one of them, yes you are, you can’t deny this!
Because you don’t have any reason to follow your dreams.
Because you forgot the fact that; you have been blessed with this precious life, and you are just throwing it away.
Have you heard this quote…?

Live your life to the fullest, you only live once!

By my question is how many of you are actually doing it?
How are you living your life to the fullest?
When was the last time you had celebrated and expressed gratitude over your small achievement?
When was the last time you have done anything for someone that can’t be repaid?
I think, you’re just crossing the laps of never ending race.
Just think it over again and again until you do not hit the bottom. And stop saying this:
“My Life Sucks”

Sorry for being rude, but that’s the way our parents and teachers scolded us when we were not on the right track.
I just did the same, now I’m going to pull my virtual hand and hold you from your collar and made you to sit and think;
Only thinking….nothing else…..
Think about your life, when was the last time you were thankful for your life?
When was the last time you appreciated your belongings, your loved ones or any stranger who has helped you?

We all are so busy running in fulfilling our desires and neglecting what we own. that we hardly appreciate the life which is given to us, so it’s a kind of wakeup call for you.
Now stop regretting and start appreciating!

Top 10 Gratitude Quotes

1. When started counting my blessings, my whole life turned around. –Willie Nelson
2. When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears. – Anthony Robbins
3. If you count all your assets, you always show profit. –Robert Quillen
4. If you want to find happiness, find gratitude. –Steve Maraboli
5. Gratitude turns what we have into enough. –Unknown
6. A grateful mind is a mind which eventually  attracts to itself great things. –Plato
7. When our perils are past, shall our gratitude sleep? – George Canning
8. Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it. – William Arthur Ward
9. No matter how good or bad your life is, wake up each morning and be thankful that you still have one. – Unknown
10. God gave you a gift of 86,400 seconds today. Have you used one to say ‘thank you? – William A.Ward